Holiday Outfit Ideas for Women Over 50 I Actually Wear

Holiday outfit ideas for parties, family dinners, and New Year’s Eve, built from pieces that mix and match all season.

I stopped buying a new outfit for every invitation on the calendar a long time ago. These days, I’d rather have a handful of pieces I love that work for the office party, the family dinner, and New Year’s Eve, and let a different pair of shoes or earrings do most of the work.

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This time of year, the calendar fills fast, and the holiday party circuit can make anyone feel she needs a new perfect outfit for every invitation. I don’t think you do. Personal style is mostly knowing what you’ll actually put on, and a timeless look carries you through the festive season better than anything bought for one night.

Some things simply stay. I still wear my long puffer a lot, so it’s back on this list for December’s out-and-about days.

Below are eight outfits, one for each kind of holiday plan and two for New Year’s Eve, plus the pieces that swap between them, so one good jacket or skirt shows up more than once.

My birthday falls right after Thanksgiving, and we always go out for a very special dinner. I pick a nice restaurant for that night, and since everyone in the family is a bit of a foodie, it’s one of the highlights of my season. My kids are very casual, and so is my husband, but that night I make everyone dress up.

A flat lay of a holiday outfit featuring a dark sweater with beaded trim, red trousers, black slingback heels, a red clutch, stud earrings, and two lipsticks, under the title “Holiday Outfits I Actually Wear.”

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Before you shop for the holidays:

What is actually on my calendar this season: parties, dinners, travel, or mostly home?
What do I already own that just needs new shoes or earrings?
Can I sit, stand, and walk in it all evening?
Will I wear it again in January?

What took me years to figure out: one great jacket or pair of shoes does more for the season than three dresses worn once.

My Holiday Outfit Guide: Five Things I Look For

Check the dress code first. Cocktail parties, a formal night, and an office party each ask for something different, and a quick text to the host saves a lot of second-guessing.
One statement piece per holiday look. A velvet blazer, a feather jacket, or statement jewelry, never all three at once.
Classic fabrics with extra texture. Velvet, satin, tweed, and cashmere are soft fabrics that feel festive without trying.
A pop of color or a subtle sparkle. Emerald greens, forest greens, and deep reds feel like the holidays; winter whites and a neutral color like camel or cocoa keep it calm. A red lip does the rest.
Long sleeves or a good coat. Most holiday celebrations start with walking in from the cold, so I plan the layer on top as part of the outfit.

the outfits

Eight Looks

1

For the Holiday Party

A satin slip dress under a long wool coat is the easiest party outfit I know. The velvet block heel is what I care about most: I can stand in it all night, and leather gloves finish the walk in from the car.

Of all my holiday party outfits, this is the one I come back to.

If you’re gathering Christmas party outfit ideas for cocktail parties, start here: one party dress, one coat, and the earrings change the mood.

Holiday party outfit: navy satin slip dress, red wool scarf coat, black velvet block heels, a black calf hair clutch, rhinestone statement earrings and leather gloves

2

For My Birthday Dinner

This is what I’d wear to my birthday dinner this year.

Red velvet pants with a navy cardigan and tee, both embroidered at the neckline, feel festive without a dress, and the red picks up the clutch and the lipstick.

A slingback kitten heel keeps it easy to walk from the car to the table.

Birthday dinner outfit: red velvet pants, a navy embellished cardigan and tee, black slingback kitten heels, a red clutch, stud earrings, lipstick and cologne

3

For a Dinner Out

A velvet suit feels dressed up without trying too hard, and the two pieces split up beautifully: the blazer with jeans, the pants with a cashmere sweater.

Under the blazer, the navy embellished tee from my birthday outfit does the sparkle. It isn’t a formal night, so I skip the gown.

Emerald greens look rich by candlelight; a red lip and gold drop earrings bring in the color, and the velvet blazer does the dressing up for me.

Dinner out outfit: emerald velvet blazer and flare pants, a navy embellished tee, black slingback pumps, a black clutch, gold drop earrings and red lipstick

4

For the Office Party or a Holiday Lunch

A tweed jacket over satin reads polished in daylight and still feels festive. A gold watch and chain earrings keep it polished, and a quilted shoulder bag carries everything I need for the day.

For office holiday parties, I want something I can wear from my desk to the party: a chic blouse in satin, or, on a colder day, a knit top under the tweed jacket.

Office party outfit: tweed jacket, satin shell top, satin slip skirt with lace trim, black slingback pumps, a quilted shoulder bag, a gold watch, chain drop earrings and red lipstick

5

For Christmas Eve with Family

Comfortable enough to cook in, festive enough for photos.

A red Fair Isle cardigan with wide-leg jeans and a skinny red belt is my kind of holiday sweater, and block-heeled ankle boots are the kind I can stand in all evening.

Christmas outfits for home should let you cook, sit with family, and still look nice in the photos. A cozy cardigan is the perfect choice.

Christmas Eve outfit: red Fair Isle cardigan, wide-leg jeans, a red skinny belt, black block-heel ankle boots, a black crossbody bag, a silver watch, stud earrings and cologne

6

For Out and About

Shopping, errands, holiday lights: the days you’re in and out of the car and the cold. This is where my long puffer earns its place.

A black cashmere turtleneck and plaid trousers keep it polished under the puffer, and the block-heel ankle boots are easy to walk in all day.

If a puffer isn’t you, the faux shearling barn jacket in the list below is an excellent choice for errands. Barn jackets have been around forever for a reason, and this one is a great option for years, not one season.

Errands outfit: long puffer coat, black cashmere turtleneck, plaid wide-leg trousers, black block-heel ankle boots, a black leather tote, a silver watch, stud earrings and lip color

Prefer a wool coat? This one works with every outfit in this post:

SHOP IT: Long wool reefer coat

7

For New Year’s Eve

Choose one rich color or a little metallic, a feather jacket if you’re feeling brave, and heels you can dance in.

Look one is velvet and feathers: a beetroot velvet midi dress, the feather jacket, velvet block heels, and a deep berry lip.

Holiday outfit idea for New Year's Eve: beetroot velvet midi dress, black faux feather jacket, black velvet block heels, burgundy chain clutch, red cluster earrings and berry lipstick

8

For New Year’s Eve Look Two

New Year’s Eve is when I say yes to a sparkly dress. Look Two is a matching gold jacquard coat and dress: the jacquard has a subtle sparkle that doesn’t feel like a costume, and statement jewelry brings the festive energy without a sequin dress. Black suede pumps and a red lip keep it classic.

Holiday outfit idea for New Year's Eve: gold jacquard coat and matching dress with black suede pumps, a black clutch, gold hoop earrings, red lipstick and perfume

If you want one showstopper this year:

Black long-sleeve maxi dress with feather trim at the cuffs, with the text If You Want a Showstopper This Year

SHOP IT: Maxi dress with a feather boa

And for Christmas Morning

Pajamas you don’t mind being photographed in, plus a soft sweater to pull on for coffee. My Christmas Day outfits stay simple: a festive sweater, or a red sweater if you want the color, over pajamas or with jeans.

Three Christmas pajama sets: a deep red pajama set, a red and white striped pajama shirt and a pink striped pajama set with red trim, with the text Pajamas You Don't Mind Being Photographed In

SHOP IT: Striped flannel pajama set | Striped nightshirt | Ticking stripe pajama set

The Pieces That Swap Between Outfits

This is how a few holiday pieces turn into a whole season. Each of these works with at least two of the outfits above. Holiday dresses tend to get worn once. These pieces get worn all winter, in a whole season of festive looks.

Skirts

SHOP IT: Teal taffeta midi skirt | Gold jacquard skirt | Beaded pencil skirt | Blue knitted midi skirt | Satin jacquard slip skirt

Pants

SHOP IT: Emerald velvet pants | Black velvet pants | Pomegranate ponte pants | Corduroy trousers

Tops and toppers

SHOP IT: Embellished tulle top | Cropped cardigan with a faux fur collar | Embellished detachable collar | Corduroy jacket

Coats

SHOP IT: Faux shearling barn jacket | Long wool reefer coat | Long wool wrapping coat

Shoes and small things

Holiday shoes and accessories: embellished black flats, leopard block-heel slingbacks, pointed slingback heels and a calf hair pencil bag, with the text Shoes and Small Things That Swap

SHOP IT: Embellished black flats | Block-heel slingbacks | Pointed slingback heels | Calf hair pencil bag

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To me, the best parts of the holiday season happen at the table, not in front of the closet. Pick the outfit, then go enjoy the holiday spirit. Happy holidays.

The best holiday outfit is the one you forget you’re wearing, because you’re busy enjoying the evening.

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